From Proverbs 24.16 we learn that failing is Ok if I will get back up. Therefore, my repeated efforts show resilience in my character.
The Precept Explained
So, the issue isn’t failing because we all fail.
Instead, the issue is my ability to recover and move on.
Hence, “falling seven times” from Proverbs 24.16 is a word picture of a resilient character.
As such, a resilient person is willing to keep trying because those repeated efforts lead to success.
Actually, the basis of resilience is an honorable character. Thus, the contrast between “just” and “wicked” in the verse.
So, why is character important as a guide? Because I can be equally as persistent at doing wrong as at that which is right!
Why I Fail
Next, what are some reasons for failing?
Well, in Proverbs we find several reasons, such as:
1). Being self-deceived, Proverbs 11.5
2). Getting poor advice or no advice, Proverbs 11.14
3). Placing my trust in the material, Proverbs 11.28
4). Not controlling what I say, Proverbs 17.20
5). Stubbornness, Proverbs 28.14
Stubbornness is a source of all types of problems! Proverbs 28.14 paraphrase
Repeated Efforts
What I want is to be able to recover. To rise back up.
In other words, I want to move forward again after a set-back.
Now, I rise up by:
1). Learning from my mistakes.
2). Being honest in my self-assessment.
3). Finding ways to improve necessary skills.
4). Focusing on a solution instead of where I failed.
Basically, I commit to learning and to growing.
Conversely, I don’t play the victim. Or, double-down on behavior that’s not working at all.
It’s one thing to get up seven times and repeat the same behavior. But, it’s something very different to get up, learn, and try a different behavior! proverbsforprofessionals.net
Leadership Insight
So, where does persistence end and useless hard-headedness begin?
Unfortunately, there’s no bright yellow line to mark off those two. However, it’s important for a leader to recognize the difference between persistence and hard-headedness.
Although there’s no clear demarcation, we can examine motives as one way to find that line.
For example, if I’m driven by ego, or a desire for wealth or power, or I refuse to admit I am wrong, then very likely I’ve crossed that line.
Another warning sign is that I’m driven by anger.
But, even if my motives are good, sometimes conditions are such that success is impossible. Or, the risks are much higher that the expected rewards. Thus, I’m risking a lot to gain a little.
So, motives and a realistic assessment of conditions are two ways to measure the likely payoff from resilience.
Apply This Today!
Repeated efforts show resilience. But, the assumption is that I am learning from those repeated attempts.
Unfortunately, repeated efforts can also demonstrate persistent hard-headedness. As well, it shows I’m not willing to learn from mistakes.
Remember, failing isn’t failure until I stop trying!
Originally published 7/20/2020; updated 6/28/2022
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