Our spiritual depth helps us give hearty counsel to others, which is counsel of the soul. Touching the Heart Some advice heals and encourages us by touching our heart. The advice reaches into the seat of our character, thus touching our integrity and emotions. To reach our heart, the counselor must be sensitive to what […]
We can grow as a result of difficult circumstances. However, we can also be refined by hard conversations. Learning From Life Character development is difficult. It demands that we be patient as we learn from life experiences such as failures, mistakes, and challenging circumstances. When we persist and learn, we build deeper character. At the […]
One aspect of influence with friends is pointing out problems, hence the importance of preparing for hard conversations. This is awkward! Hard conversations, especially with friends, are tough. Even when delivered with grace and discretion, hard-to-hear advice may not be accepted. But, what’s the alternative? We simply bypass that needed conversation by flattery or by […]
Hard conversations are just that, hard. But, what are we willing to hear? Hard Conversations Some conversations are hard because they push us to look deep inside. And, to consider where we need to change. Thus, to admit our current reality, which isn’t sustainable. In Proverbs 27.6 we learn that the “wounds of a friend” […]
Where we look, and what we look for are important because we find what we look for! Where are we looking? An important aspect of being wise is knowing what to pursue. The discernment that flows out of knowing wisdom instructs us on what we should pursue in life. According to Proverbs 21.21, our desire […]
