One aspect of influence with friends is pointing out problems, hence the importance of preparing for hard conversations. This is awkward! Hard conversations, especially with friends, are tough. Even when delivered with grace and discretion, hard-to-hear advice may not be accepted. But, what’s the alternative? We simply bypass that needed conversation by flattery or by […]
Hard conversations are just that, hard. But, what are we willing to hear? Hard Conversations Some conversations are hard because they push us to look deep inside. And, to consider where we need to change. Thus, to admit our current reality, which isn’t sustainable. In Proverbs 27.6 we learn that the “wounds of a friend” […]
Where we look, and what we look for are important because we find what we look for! Where are we looking? An important aspect of being wise is knowing what to pursue. The discernment that flows out of knowing wisdom instructs us on what we should pursue in life. According to Proverbs 21.21, our desire […]
Personal growth doesn’t happen by accident. Our growth is a deliberate choice. Not Accidental! Inner change, thus a transformed character, isn’t accidental. We don’t stumble into personal growth. Instead, we make a deliberate choice regarding inner change. In Proverbs 23.26 we read “…give me your heart.” There “heart” (Hebrew Leb) is the seat of our […]
We’ll continue to solve the wrong problem until we realize that finding root cause is essential! That’s obvious! We continue to tamper around with symptoms until we identify root cause for our life outcomes. That misidentification leads to persistent problems, as well as frustration and confusion about what’s next. For example, in Proverbs 24.30-34 we […]
