Don’t fall into the trap of “have to” doing. Instead, ask: Why do this?
Too Busy for What Matters
Always ask yourself “Why am I doing this?”
That’s especially true when addressing the “I’m Too Busy” trap.
Clearly, the wrong answer is: “Because I have to.”
Why? Because it reflects a victim mindset, that’s why!
Actually, the correct answer is: “Because this activity reflects deeply-held values core to WHO I am.”
Why Do This?
Ok how can we answer that question?
Here’s a progression that can guide us when facing questions about the value of an activity.
We must move backward through the progression of:
1). Habits – WHAT we do on a regular basis, to
2). Goals – HOW we accomplish our life purpose, then
3). Purpose – thus, back to our priorities, passion, and purpose – our WHY, to finally reaching
4). WHO – as in WHO we are as a person. Thus, begin with WHO you are.
There’s a constant trade-off. As such, we release “good enough” to pursue “exceeding abundance.” proverbsforprofessionals.net
The Precept
Note the contrast presented in Proverbs 16.22.
The verse contrasts being unteachable (“instruction of fools”) with the abundance (“wellspring of life”) of grasping what’s absolutely essential (“Understanding…”).
Gee, what a choice! Foolishness or abundance!
More specifically, I free up resources to pursue abundance from the essential by releasing that which is unprofitable to me.
Apply This Today!
Ultimately, I have time for what truly matters in life because I know what’s most essential to me.
Fact is, one of the best mental models for visualizing a balanced life is the justice-mercy continuum. Hence, I balance blind obligation with an openness to interpersonal needs.
Finally, a question: What life-style practices and deliberate choices keep you from being too busy for what really matters?
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