Often, I hear “So, what did you expect?” when there’s no change in the behavior I was trying to correct. However, without inner motivation, little change is likely. Commands are often used. But, they’re not always successful. Why? because they don’t bring the desired change. Hence, the retort “So, what did you expect?” Actually, what […]
When I recognize what’s essential I’m better equipped for balancing expectations and execution. That is, I know and do what’s essential. One place life quickly gets out of balance is with expectations and execution. For example, I fret over the expectations of others. Worse yet, I have unrealistic expectations of myself. As a result, no […]
Creativity is divine and eternal. But, what am I creating? What’s coming back out of my life as a result of what I’ve been given? When I work, when I interact with others, when I think – I’m creating. However, what am I creating? That is, what’s coming from my life that’s of lasting value? […]
To avoid living in a continual daze and state of confusion, leaders must recognize that sense-making is an essential skill. Discernment and sense-making are essential and companion skills for a leader. Why? Because leaders must be able to recognize what’s happening in front of them. Then, leaders must respond appropriately and wisely. Hence, sense-making is […]
Unfortunately, some habits are bad. Truly, a little neglect is dangerous. Especially, when the outcome is perversion of my duty as a leader. Like it or not, lifestyle choices are deliberate choices I make. Additionally, some choices are destructive. Thus, beware of neglect. Why? Because it enables those habits. Again, why? Because a little neglect […]
