Experience is the best teacher only when I learn from those experiences! For instance, self-control is an important lesson. In fact, from Proverbs 11.12 we learn that experiential insight brings self-control.
Abusing others is evidence of a poor character. Whereas, experiential insight produces self-control. Proverbs 11.12 paraphrase
The Precept Explained
How I treat others is evidence of who I really am.
For instance, abusive behavior is rooted in a lack of character, according to Proverbs 11.12.
However, discretion about when to speak and what to say comes from developing experiential insight.
Thus, I learn to “hold my peace” as the old saying goes. That saying, by the way, is based on this verse from Proverbs.
Building Self-control
Interestingly, I think is how this precept in Proverbs 11.12 clearly links self-control and experiential insight. Likewise, we see that same linkage in Proverbs 14.29.
In Proverbs, experiential insight partners with deep thoughtfulness, Proverbs 2.11 and 5.1-2. Also, it’s connected to creativity, Proverbs 3.19. As well, it allows me to draw deeply from the counsel of others, Proverbs 20.5.
Moreover, experiential insight isn’t hidden or secret, but publicly available, Proverbs 8.1-3. And, it’s a source of good in my life, Proverbs 19.8.
Ultimately, experiential insight is the foundation for building a strong family, Proverbs 24.3.
Unfortunately, a foolish person doesn’t learn from experience. Instead, the fool is self-consumed, according to Proverbs 18.2. Even worse, a leader who lacks experiential insight lacks human compassion, Proverbs 28.16.
Therefore, from this brief list we see the critical importance of intentionally building experiential insight.
I strengthen my character to become less reactive and more tolerant by accumulating practical insights from personal experiences.
Apply this Today!
Rather than simply react, I pause – on purpose, to build understanding about what just happened. Hence, I learn to use stimulus-response in a productive way.
Over time, my responses to situations will improve as my character develops through gaining emotional intelligence.
Truly, experiential insight brings self-control.
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