Proverbs 23.1 is a warning about going to see the boss. Specifically, it says to think before you meet! Thus, don’t walk in unprepared.
Consider carefully what’s on the agenda before meeting with a leader. Proverbs 23.1 paraphrase
The Precept Explained
In Proverbs 23.1 we’re warned to be discerning and mentally prepared before interacting with those in authority.
Actually, social interactions with higher-ups, inside or outside my organization, are an opportunity to make an impression.
However, I must be sensitive to organizational politics. Also, to institutional and external factors during those meetings.
As it turns out, the verses that follow focus on motives and on self-control. But, for now let’s focus on discernment.
To Prepare – Discern
First, the phrase “eat with a ruler” indicates the setting. As such, it’s a business meeting involving food. Also, I’m meeting up the chain-of-command.
Thus, this meeting combines business with a meal. So, lots of changes for me to mess up!
Second, the warning is to discern. Later, we learn that the discernment has to do with our own behavior and our own motives.
Basically, to discern means to detect with the senses. Also, it means to recognize mentally.
In short, to discern means I get what’s going on because discernment helps me recognize the truth.
What Discernment Looks Like
When I’m discerning:
1). I listen to the advice of others, Proverbs 1.5 because I am a continual learner, Proverbs 15.14, and I accept correction, Proverbs 19.25
2). I dump foolish overconfidence, Proverbs 8.5
3). I exhibit practical wisdom, Proverbs 10.13 and 14.33
4). I’m careful about what I say, Proverbs 17.28
5). I make a significant and positive contribution, Proverbs 28.2 because of my spiritual insight, Proverbs 28.5
Hence, discernment is a great trait to build into my life!
Apply this Today!
A discerning character helps me correctly recognize intentions. Then, I can behave with discretion and thoughtfulness.
So, to avoid problems with the higher-ups, think before you meet!
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