I realize that actions have consequences, but I hate taking responsibility for those outcomes! It’s a lot easier to complain using questions like “What can I control?”
Sow – reap. Action – Reaction. Stimulus – Response. Cause – Effect. Regardless of the wording, actions have consequences. Thus, there is always root cause.
The Essentials
Consequences don’t exist without causal actions.
So, what’s that mean for me? It means I’m not a victim. Instead, I’m responsible for my life’s outcomes.
But wait, aren’t some things out of my control? Ok, disease and natural disaster are examples of uncontrollable circumstances.
However, much of my life is lived within the range of what I can control. Therefore, I should ask, “What can I control?”
Likewise, Proverbs 26.2 says there is no “curse causeless” meaning no circumstances for which there weren’t prior causes. Are some criticisms undeserved? Of course. That said, they are usually outside what I can control. So, again, ask “What can I control?”
Instead, I should reflect on where I have violated basic life precepts. For example, Proverbs 26.3 says my foolishness produces severe outcomes in my life.
Apply This Today!
A discerning person chooses to change course so the cause of the curse goes away. In short, don’t keep doing what I’ve always done but expect a different outcome!
Note the first half of Proverbs 26.2. What appears to be random and uncontrolled is sometimes natural. It’s natural for there to be root cause for criticism or difficult outcomes.
One of the persistent messages of Proverbs is to be teachable. Wherefore, take time to reflect on what has happened by asking “What can I control?”
Remember, I can always control how I respond – if I choose to do so.
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