We can grow as a result of difficult circumstances. However, we can also be refined by hard conversations. Learning From Life Character development is difficult. It demands that we be patient as we learn from life experiences such as failures, mistakes, and challenging circumstances. When we persist and learn, we build deeper character. At the […]
One aspect of influence with friends is pointing out problems, hence the importance of preparing for hard conversations. This is awkward! Hard conversations, especially with friends, are tough. Even when delivered with grace and discretion, hard-to-hear advice may not be accepted. But, what’s the alternative? We simply bypass that needed conversation by flattery or by […]
Hard conversations are just that, hard. But, what are we willing to hear? Hard Conversations Some conversations are hard because they push us to look deep inside. And, to consider where we need to change. Thus, to admit our current reality, which isn’t sustainable. In Proverbs 27.6 we learn that the “wounds of a friend” […]
A relationship proceeds through stages while we’re building an impactful friendship. How friendly? We have casual acquaintances. That is, we know their name and recognize them in passing. But, it’s inaccurate to call them a friend. We interact regularly with others. The conversations are more frequent; the relationship may involve an occasional meal together. They’re […]
By asking “What do I bring to the table?” we identify the good that we offer to others. A Narrow Context We can think of “bring to the table” in a number of contexts. Most obviously, we think of our professional accomplishments. Moreover, we may define who we are in terms of our job if […]
