How we define success has far-reaching impacts on us. As such, let’s discuss the importance of defining success authentically.
Success Criteria
We each get to write our own definition of success.
Then, for better or worse, we pursue success based on the success definition we’ve created.
However, given the far reaching impact of that definition, we should examine our success criteria with great care.
Consequently, what are some common criteria for defining success? Here’s a starter list of common success criteria:
1). Material wealth
2). Recognition/fame
3). Independence/life-style freedom.
I’m sure you can think of other success criteria that fit your world view and personal values.
Success to what end?
Now, our definition of success drives what we do. If we’re not thoughtful, it becomes our sole motivation in life.
For example, our desire for material wealth drives the choices we make about how we use our time. And about activities we do, and do not, participate in.
Our pursuit of success, on our own terms, impacts others around us. Most specifically, our drive for success impacts our family and friends.
Moreover, how we define success is crucial because the outcome of those success efforts deeply impacts our sense of self-worth. Especially when we fail!
Thus, the impact of our pursuit of success is both internal and external.
We can count the costs of that pursuit without arguing to aim low. Or to live an inauthentic life.
Instead, we must emphasize the importance of self-awareness and authenticity. Thus knowing and then being true to who we are. Hence, the importance of defining success authentically.
Ultimately, we choose what’s of greatest value to us. proverbsforprofessionals.net
The Precept
Solomon was clear about his pursuit of knowing wisdom. In fact, it was his life goal, as stated in Ecclesiastes 1.17 “…I gave my heart to know wisdom…”
Ok, let’s ask “To what end?” Well, keep reading.
Along with knowing wisdom, Solomon accumulated great wealth. How much? In Ecclesiastes 2.9 he says “…I …increased more than all that were before me in Jerusalem…” He says he was the richest guy in town!
Again, “To what end?” Keep reading!
In Ecclesiastes 2.11 he says “…all was vanity (meaningless) and vexation of spirit (chasing the wind) …and no profit under the sun.” Ugh!
Sounds like great wealth and fame don’t guarantee deep fulfillment if we’re unable, or unwilling, to enjoy what our success has brought us.
Apply This Today!
Regarding life purpose and our passion to pursue success, those two can be either good or bad. Therefore, we must be careful about the purpose and passion we choose, then allow them to guide us as we pursue success.
Remember, our purpose flows out of a clear sense of who we are — our authentic self. More fundamentally, for a person of faith, purpose is guided by their relationship with God.
Defining success authentically becomes easier when we’re clear about our divinely-appointed life purpose and comfortable with who we are in our deepest, inner self.
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