Life upheaval can happen at any time. However, a time of transition brings us opportunities for growth.
How did I get here?
Right now, I’m entering a time of transition in my life.
It’s not supposed to be this way – – not now. How come?
Well, I’m 75, retired for five years, and repurposed. At this stage of life, things are supposed to be stable. Predictable. And, most of all, uneventful.
But because of a deliberate choice, I’m transitioning in a key area of my life.
I knew my actions could lead to this outcome, but it’s still a challenge to work through this transition.
As such, an obvious question is: “What have I learned from past transitions that I can apply to this situation?” Let’s discuss that.
Asking in faith is a way to become wiser. But, be prepared to hear back that we must make better use of what’s already revealed to, and provided to, us! proverbsforprofessionals.net
Transition Insights
In no particular order, here’s some advice to myself based on being here before.
1). Do operate from a place of strength: It’s good for us to look back across our life. Note prior times of transition. Give yourself credit for those previous successes. You’ve been here – – done that. You can do this again! Don’t become overwhelmed,.
2). Don’t look for a quick, simple fix: We can learn some basic principles from times of transition. Most critically, it’s important to recognize that life isn’t a nice, neat set of steps that fit a checklist. Each transition is unique, so be open to new learning. Be adaptable. Don’t force prior learning and solutions on newly-emerged problems when prior learning may not fit. Instead, give yourself time to reflect and discern.
3). Don’t be a hero: There’s no need to do it all yourself. Seek out wise counsel. Draw on the experiences and successes of friends. Their wise counsel is invaluable. In faith, actively seek God’s guidance. And then wait. Solomon reminds us in Proverbs 11.14 that there’s safety “,,,in the multitude of counselors.” Likewise, in Proverbs 13.20 he says we become wise by being influenced by the wise. Thus, draw from the resources around you.
In short, look backward, inward, and outward for guidance during a time of transition.
4). Do ask yourself Why: Don’t transition because you’re running away. And, don’t transition because you’re angry and bitter. Moreover, don’t let yourself get trapped into a Have-To life. Instead, envision yourself intentionally moving toward a transition that features growth, abundance, and fulfillment. Live a Get-To life that’s deliberate, thoughtful, and driven by purpose.
5). Do ask yourself Who: It’s good for us to recognize who we could become as we grow through and out of a transition. However, it’s even better for us to actively pursue that envisioned self. Yes, it’s important to be self-aware so we know who we are right now. But, transitions are a unique opportunity for dramatic growth – – if we choose to engage in that growth process.
God’s blessing brought Isaac multiplication and greatness. He was great. He grew personally to become greater. Ultimately, Isaac was exceedingly great! Genesis 26.13 paraphrase.
Apply This Today!
How will my current transition play out? Ask me in a year or so! I know I’m open to options and I’m not fixed on a single, “perfect” outcome.
I understand from Proverbs 22.3 that with foresight, we anticipate problems and then take appropriate actions. But that prudent lifestyle doesn’t preclude new learning and creative solutions. Therefore, pursue abundance!
We never outgrow the need for new learning that comes with personal growth. So, avoid the excuse that “I’m too old for this!” Because, fact is, you’re not too old!
When we avoid transitions, by refusing to act on what we know is the right thing to do we are walking away from a season of measurable growth. Conversely, pursuit of growth positions us to share our transitional learning with others.
What does abundance and overflow look like? Look at Genesis 26.12 where Isaac sowed, thus invested in growth, and saw a one-time, dramatic return. Then, in Genesis 26.13 his growth continued. He was great, but chose to move forward until he became exceeding great! Truly, transition brings multiplication when we choose to engage by growing.
I’m Dale Young. My posts share the balanced life to build wise character and guide wise behavior.
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