Like it or not, foolish overconfidence isn’t self-confidence! Instead, overconfidence can be destructive if not managed properly.
The Essentials
Can I push too hard? That is, extend myself beyond reasonable bounds? And, in so doing take foolish chances that are excessively risky?
No, not just when I’m 18!
That said, I don’t think there’s a clear line between healthy self-confidence and being foolishly overconfident.
Here are three warning signs that I’m pushing too hard:
1). I lack a discerning character to know right from wrong. thus, there are no boundaries on my actions.
2). I ignore obvious warning signs that turn off or push away others.
3). My life is habitually out of balance. Therefore, I’ve become a do-anything person who lacks reverence and doesn’t think critically. I lack discernment, thus behave inappropriately.
What’s the outcome of these excesses? Well, my uncritical, careless, and clueless life isn’t sustainable. But, my state of mind prevents me from recognizing the excessive risks I’m taking.
The Precept
Proverbs 28.26 warns that excessive self-trust is foolish. I address this problem by living a balance life. As such, a life that reflects the wisdom of know and doing in balance.
In addition, Proverbs 14.16 notes that it’s wise to recognize and respond to threats around me. In so doing, I must avoid anger and excessive self-confidence.
Finally, Proverbs 8.5 invites the foolishly overconfident into a balanced life that’s marked by a discerning character.
The Precept: Excessive self-trust is destructive. So, get a grip by living a balanced life. Proverbsforprofessionals.net
Apply This Today!
So, what’s the way out?
For starters, I must recognize that foolish overconfidence isn’t self-confidence!
Then, I must choose personal growth that builds a sound character.
Flowing out of that character transformation is the ability to behave wisely.
Now, what lifestyle practices help you to stay grounded, thus living in balance?
Post originally published August 22, 2021. Updated April 8, 2023
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