How did I get so bitter? Ha, by choice! Let’s discuss: Is bitterness taking root in my life?
A Definition
In Hebrews 12:15 we’re warned about a “root of bitterness.” The word for “bitterness” (pikria) means sharpness.
Actually, that same word is in Ephesians 4:31, with anger, harsh words, and spiteful or ill will.
Instead, Ephesians 4:32, we’re to be kind and tender-hearted.
Remember, Naomi was bitter, Ruth 1:20-21.
Even worse, she directed her bitterness at God: “The Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me… the Almighty has afflicted me.”
Unfortunately, being mad at God gets us nowhere!
How Did I Get Here?
Will we be bitter? Sometimes. It’s personal – Proverbs 14:10: “The heart – our inner self – knows its own bitterness…”
How does that bitterness grow in us?
In part, by our unwillingness to let it go. To forgive.
Truly, forgiveness most deeply impacts the forgiver, not the one who is being forgiven. Be forgiving – mostly to yourself!
James questions how we can be both “sweet and bitter” James 3:11, where that bitterness is in our heart, James 3:14.
Fact is, we can be sharp or bitter at those who are very close to us, according to Colossians 3:19.
Now, where’s this leave us?
Getting Out of Here
Certainly, we’re going to be kicked around by life. Why? Because life isn’t fair!
Some hurts and abuses last a lifetime. Actually, the person who caused the pain may be unaware of what they’ve done. Or, simply may not care.
Beyond forgiveness, and counseling, and prayer, we walk by faith, 2 Corinthians 5:7, trusting God to work in His time and in His way.
Naomi’s story had a happy ending because her hurt was what brought Ruth to meet Boaz.
Consequently, our lives are always part of a much larger picture when we’re in God’s hands.
It’s Personal!
Finally, see Proverbs 19:11.
We must grasp the bigger picture. Thus, recognize what’s most essential (“discretion” in the KJV). It allows us to set aside, or defer our anger, and to “…overlook an offense.”
When we let it go, we’re positioned for dramatic growth and significant spiritual impact.
Where? In our own life, then in the lives of others!
You’ll release your anger when you see what’s most critical in a situation. Thus, sometimes you must let it go! Proverbs 19.11 paraphrase proverbsforprofessionals.net
Apply This Today!
Is bitterness taking root in my life?
One way to check on bitterness is by asking: “What thoughts consume me?”
Next, choose to forgive. To release. That doesn’t mean I endure abuse. But, I don’t allow something external to consume me internally.